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30 Inspiring Small Master Bedroom Decor Ideas For Couples

Inspiring Small Master Bedroom Decor Ideas For Couples 29

Experts that study marriage say our home is often the worst place to find romance because of all the distractions.

I would like to share with you some ways to make your bedroom like a sanctuary and a place of beauty. Just as the Bible speaks of David finding refuge from King Saul’s pursuits of him, you, too, can come to view your bedroom as a place of refuge, beauty, and peace. Just as David escaped to his sanctuary called Engedi, you can create your own Engedi as well.

Start by picturing in your mind what the perfect place would look and feel like for spending time and making love with your spouse. What comes to your mind? What does this oasis look like? Can you detect pleasing smells and sensations. Did you find yourself picturing a secluded cabin in the woods, or was it more like a deserted beach? Why do these types of places “feel” so special? Why do they seem so “perfect” for lovemaking. When we speak of making our bedroom an Engedi, we are talking about trying to make it feel and look like a sanctuary. By sanctuary I mean words like a retreat, an oasis, a hideout, and a safe shelter. Your Engedi should be a place where you and your spouse feel relaxed and peaceful. For most married couples, this would be their bedroom, and this room should actually be the most beautiful room in your home. The goal for this room is to make it your favorite room in the whole house. In a book entitled, Intimate Issues, authors Linda Dillow and Lorraine Pintus say, “Walk into your bedroom and take a long look. Is it a place set for passionate love.

If you are reading this article with your spouse, or plan to discuss this idea with them, consider discussing this question: If you could snap your fingers and change things about your bedroom, what would they be, and why. Maybe your Engedi needs a little work. Know that whatever you do, don’t let your Engedi frustrate you-simply decide to make some changes a little bit at a time and your bedroom can become what the two of you want it to be. Here are some things you can do to make your Engedi feel like a sanctuary. Even if you both love the way your bedroom looks right now, you might read something that inspires you to make some subtle changes-little things that can make Engedi even better. You may even read an idea you would like to incorporate in the future. One important aspect to consider is to make sure Engedi ministers to your senses. God created us with wonderful senses for seeing, tasting, hearing, touching, and smelling. Try to keep these senses in mind as you’re examining and redecorate your bedroom.

I remember how this whole concept of Engedi first impacted me. Through my studies on sex and intimacy in marriage, I began to understand just how important Engedi is for my relationship with my husband. I tend to be a very practical person and had never spent much money on our bedroom; However, I realized I had underestimated how important it was to make our bedroom a place that was both beautiful and inviting to both of us. Several years ago I went shopping. My goal was to beautify, and “sexify” our bedroom to make it more inviting and relaxing. My husband and I live in a log home, and I’ve always liked how the wood walls and the vaulted ceiling make our room feel warm and inviting. I had always felt like it didn’t required much in the way of decoration to make it feel special. However, I purchased some valences, a few unique decorations, and even bought an artificial fichus tree to sit in one corner of the room. Then I put a couple of little red and white strands of lights in it. Now it is one of our favorite ways to “set the mood” in our room. Later we purchased a CD player so we could enjoy soft, relaxing music, and we also added some lightly scented candles. Finally, we purchased two wonderful recliners and placed them up against the wall, opposite from our bed. These allow us opportunities to talk in private and give us a wonderful place to relax. Now our Engedi is truly our favorite place to be whenever we are together. My husband and I have also trained all our children-big and small-to knock before entering our bedroom. We’ve made sure that they understand our bedroom is not just another room for them to play in or to enter into uninvited. Making small changes such as these have helped me realize the importance of what Engedi mean to us in our home. It has proven to be worth the time and the money to make our Engedi a very special and intimate place-just for the two of us. I encourage you to brainstorm with your spouse on how to improve your Engedi as you share ideas for giving your master bedroom a well-deserved makeover or facelift.

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